{"id":64663,"date":"2025-11-26T01:21:39","date_gmt":"2025-11-26T01:21:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/i-would-love-to-be-doing-this-in-my-60s\/"},"modified":"2025-11-26T01:21:41","modified_gmt":"2025-11-26T01:21:41","slug":"i-would-love-to-be-doing-this-in-my-60s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/i-would-love-to-be-doing-this-in-my-60s\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;I would love to be doing this in my 60s&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"\">\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 gtLOOD\">\n<div data-testid=\"hero-image\" class=\"sc-5340b511-1 cMIbKV\"><img sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/347a\/live\/fd6644f0-c950-11f0-a892-01d657345866.jpg.webp\" loading=\"eager\" alt=\"BBC Porcelain Victoria is smiling at the camera. She has long hair, dyed bright red hair. She is wearing a black T-shirt with bright pink text on it. On the left hand side there is a collection of straps and paddles, arranged on hooks. The room is dark.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/><span class=\"sc-5340b511-2 jVqbAn\">BBC<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-536eff7b-0 gnQokQ\">Porcelain Victoria is concerned that a change in the law could drive sex workers into poverty <\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 dPVOKT\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Porcelain Victoria has been selling sex for eight years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">The 26-year-old says that being self-employed allows her to be flexible with her working hours, which helps with childcare.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I very much enjoy how freeing it is and, of course, bringing a smile to my client&#8217;s faces,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;In any customer service job, you want to bring a smile to your client&#8217;s face, whether you&#8217;re a chef, or a plumber, or just somebody working at a shop.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Porcelain Victoria says she started selling sex when she was 18 and used it as a way to escape an abusive household.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I plan to do this until I can&#8217;t, basically. I would love to be doing this in my 60s,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;My plan is to hopefully semi-retire and become a counsellor helping couples and solo people figure out their sexuality when it comes to kinks and fetishes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">But she is concerned that a potential change in the law in Scotland could drive her and other sex workers into poverty.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Independent MSP Ash Regan has put forward a bill that would make it an offence to pay for sexual services. It&#8217;s an approach often referred to as the Nordic model and was first implemented in Sweden.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 gXrNRM\">\n<div data-testid=\"image\" class=\"sc-5340b511-1 cMIbKV\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.files.bbci.co.uk\/bbcdotcom\/web\/20251120-101800-81b2dab7dc-web-2.34.1-2\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/c4a8\/live\/1876acd0-c951-11f0-8c06-f5d460985095.jpg.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Ash Regan has long, red hair with a side parting. She is wearing a deep purple top featuring a high neckline with a bow at the front. The setting is dimly lit with warm tones. A light is shining behind her, casting a soft glow, while the rest of the background is blurred.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-536eff7b-0 gnQokQ\">Ash Regan&#8217;s bill will make it an offence to pay for sexual services<\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 dPVOKT\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Regan, who previously ran in an SNP leadership contest, argues that challenging men&#8217;s demand for prostitution will help protect women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">At the moment, sex can be sold and bought in Scotland but certain elements &#8211; such as soliciting, kerb-crawling and brothel-keeping &#8211; are illegal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Under Regan&#8217;s plans, selling would be legal and buying would be criminalised. Sex workers would have a statutory right to support and convictions for soliciting would be expunged. The law would not change with regard to brothels.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">But the plans are divisive.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Porcelain Victoria, who works in the Fife area, says sex work has given her an income that allows her to give her child the best life she can.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">She says criminalising clients will drive sex workers into poverty.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;There&#8217;s\u202fgoing to be less\u202fclients that want to\u202factually come\u202fup to us and see us and pay us,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I know for a fact that if I went into a normal nine-to-five job I wouldn&#8217;t be able to afford my\u202f bills\u202f.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 dPVOKT\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Porcelain Victoria&#8217;s concerns are shared by Amelia, who the BBC is choosing to keep anonymous. She made the decision to sell sex six years ago.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I was working in hospitality and I was doing 11-hour shifts with 20-minute breaks,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I was getting spoken down to quite severely at work, despite being quite a hard worker. It felt like no matter what I did, I just wasn&#8217;t ever good enough.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I started doing OnlyFans for a couple of years. And then through online, Instagram and meeting other sex workers, I realised that I was quite interested in doing in-person sex work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Amelia, who works in the Edinburgh area, does not agree with Regan&#8217;s belief that a Nordic model will lead to a decrease in violence against women.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">She fears such a model would only deter clients who are considered to be &#8220;good&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;I think that we&#8217;re willing to put sex workers at risk of violence to send a message to men. It&#8217;s insane, and it won&#8217;t work,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Because the violent clients who were going to hurt you were breaking the law anyway. They&#8217;ll happily go and see a sex worker. A client that was going to hurt me will do it, Nordic model or not.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">She also fears that other clients, who would be criminalised under these plans, would be unwilling to share their personal details in order to evade the police.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;If I could sit down with a politician and show them how I do my booking process they would immediately see all the ways that the Nordic model would make me unsafe,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;If I can&#8217;t get my client&#8217;s name, age, number, basic stuff like that I won&#8217;t feel safe at work. I could never do a booking without their name.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<figure>\n<div data-component=\"image-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 gXrNRM\">\n<div data-testid=\"image\" class=\"sc-5340b511-1 cMIbKV\"><img src=\"https:\/\/static.files.bbci.co.uk\/bbcdotcom\/web\/20251120-101800-81b2dab7dc-web-2.34.1-2\/grey-placeholder.png\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 gUePlo hide-when-no-script\" aria-label=\"image unavailable\"\/><img sizes=\"(min-width: 1280px) 50vw, (min-width: 1008px) 66vw, 96vw\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/240\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 240w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/320\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 320w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 480w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/640\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 640w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/800\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 800w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1024\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 1024w,https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/1536\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp 1536w\" src=\"https:\/\/ichef.bbci.co.uk\/news\/480\/cpsprodpb\/7326\/live\/397099a0-c951-11f0-9fb5-5f3a3703a365.jpg.webp\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Bronagh Andrew has short, grey hair and glasses. She is wearing a beige ribbed jumper with a V-neck, showing a silver necklace. The background is softly lit and blurred.\" class=\"sc-5340b511-0 hLdNfA\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><figcaption class=\"sc-536eff7b-0 gnQokQ\">Bronagh Andrew says there has been a significant increase in the number of trafficked women her organisation has supported this year<\/figcaption><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 dPVOKT\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Regan dismissed concerns that, according to some, her plans could endanger the people she is trying to protect.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;That&#8217;s complete nonsense,&#8221; she says. &#8220;At the moment the power balance between somebody working in prostitution and the punter is very much in the punter&#8217;s favour and quite often punters use that in order to exploit women&#8217;s vulnerabilities more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;So they&#8217;ll say to them &#8216;you know if you don&#8217;t do what I say I&#8217;ll tell the police about you&#8217; and so on, whereas it turns around in the Nordic model. The women in prostitution can say to the punter: &#8216;No I&#8217;m not going to comply with that request, and I can call the police on you&#8217;. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;It doesn&#8217;t sound like a lot but that is a subtle power shift which I think gives more security and more safety to those working in prostitution.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Porcelain Victoria and Amelia both fully accept that not everyone selling sex has chosen to do so and they do not speak for every sex worker in Scotland.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Regan has the support of others who have previously been involved in the trade and some of those who work to support them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Bronagh Andrew is operations manager of Tara (Trafficking Awareness Raising Alliance), a support service for survivors of trafficking. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">It strongly supports Regan&#8217;s plans, based on the organisation&#8217;s experience of the sex trade.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">It has seen a significant increase in the number of trafficked women it has supported this year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Between April and September this year, we supported 124 individual women,&#8221; Ms Andrew said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Within that six-month period, 43 of those women had been newly\u202fidentified\u202fand referred to us, which is a big jump on the\u202fprevious\u202fthis year.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-component=\"text-block\" class=\"sc-3b6b161a-0 dPVOKT\">\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">The women supported by Tara are extremely vulnerable. Ms Andrew was clear that the organisation would never put anyone forward to be interviewed, due to the trauma they had suffered.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;Traffickers use lots of different and creative ways to keep women under their control,&#8221; she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">&#8220;So women will have no English, many women are disorientated and don&#8217;t really know what part of the UK they&#8217;re in. We had one young woman who was referred to us who thought she was in Toronto &#8211; she didn&#8217;t know she was in Glasgow.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Just last week, the Scottish government said it &#8220;strongly supports&#8221; making it illegal to buy sex &#8211; but had &#8220;significant concerns&#8221; about Ash Regan&#8217;s bill.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">Ministers <a target=\"_self\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/c7404jlk3ezo\" class=\"sc-f9178328-0 iCaRzc\" rel=\"noopener\">want to see &#8220;substantial amendments&#8221; to the legislation<\/a>, meaning it is unlikely to pass before parliament breaks up for next year&#8217;s election.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">This is a complex debate. Both sides want the same thing and that is to improve the lives of women. <\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-9a00e533-0 eZyhnA\">But they have very different views on what that improvement should look like.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c2ep7dlvp4wo?at_medium=RSS&#038;at_campaign=rss\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>BBC Porcelain Victoria is concerned that a change in the law could drive sex workers into poverty Porcelain Victoria has been selling sex for eight years. The 26-year-old says that being self-employed allows her to be flexible with her working hours, which helps with childcare. &#8220;I very much enjoy how freeing it is and, of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":64664,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[49],"tags":[8996,119],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64663"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64663"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64663\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":64665,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64663\/revisions\/64665"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/64664"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64663"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64663"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kede.com.br\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64663"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}